SELF DEFENCE

I summarize here the following details which i read from various forums regarding self defence which are simple to implement and a must to be known by all women..

Once into any dangerous situation, women should not be panicked. A little act of common sense will help to save the situation.. Our safety lies in our own habits, attitudes and activities. Simple self defense techniques should be taught to our little ones and i feel it will be nice if its taught at school..

Few simple tips of self defense i have listed here..

What should a woman do if a knife wielding man demands her mobile phone when she is alone?

Throw it as far as away. As he runs for the phone, you run in the opposite direction.

What should a woman do if she finds herself alone in the company of a strange male as she prepares to enter a lift in a high-rise apartment late at night?

There is nothing to fear. Enter the lift. If you need to reach the 13th floor, press all the buttons up to your destination. No one will dare attack you in a lift that stops on every floor.

What to do if  a stranger tries to attack you when you are alone in your house ?

 Run into the kitchen. You alone know where the chilli power and turmeric are kept. And where the knives and plates are. All these can be turned into deadly weapons.If nothing else, start throwing plates and utensils all over. Let them break. Scream. Remember that noise is the greatest enemy of a molester. He does not want to be caught.

Before getting into an auto at late night, note down its registration number. Then use the mobile to call your family or friend and pass on the details to them in the language the driver understands.Even if no one answers your call, pretend you are in a conversation. The driver now knows someone has his details and he will be in serious trouble if anything goes wrong. He is now bound to take you home safe and sound.

I remember one such situation that happened to me.. Saranya, Reema and me were on our way to VLB college for a symposium. It was un time and we never got a bus. But as we have to rush to function we decided to get lift..One Tata Sumo came by that time and we got into it..Only a driver was into it.. After few minutes we got panicked, the road is isolated and we are unaware of the location. I was biting nails and was observing the route , if something happens should run na..

We all three were in same mind state. Reema had mobile, Saranya then pretend speaking to her dad creating a drama that her dad is a police officer and he is in station as we were informing him we are going to college in a red color Tata sumo. She said from which place we got lift.. After the fake call, we were relaxed a bit.. A near by town came where there were few people and we asked him to stop. We got down there. Really we had a thrilling time.. But we strongly decided not to take such risks..

What if the driver turns into a street he is not supposed to - and you feel you are entering a danger zone?

Use the handle of your purse or your dupatta (shawl) to wrap around his neck and pull him back. Within seconds, he will feel choked and helpless. In case you don't have a purse or a stole? Just pull him back by his collar. The top button of his shirt would then do the same trick.

If you are stalked at night, enter a shop or a house and explain your situation. If it is night and shops are not open, go inside an ATM box. ATM centres always have security guards. They are also monitored by close circuit television. Fearing identification, no one will dare attack you.

If someone trying to molest you, say he pushed you down and he is upon you, use your fingers and punch or pinch his eyes, make him blind. The human skull is the powerful weapon. Use your head as a weapon against the culprits nose and mouth.. You will definitely get time to get up.. One can use the same technique when someone grabs you from behind..If he is behind you, strike him in the groin and run.. It will definitely take him some time to get relieved from pain..

Mostly in bus, many ladies would come across pinching, touching actions.. Dont get panic..Instead of grabbing their wrist or entire hand, simply grab the little finger. Make the back of the finger smash into the back of the culprits hand. He will scream out of pain..

 Always carry a safety pin while bus journey. Pierce it deeply into those stupid’s hand.. I remember an incident 2 years back..I went to drop mom to railway station, Zeenath accompanied me..As it was night time less crowd at govt bus. Zeen was sitting near the window seat. I was almost sleeping.. Suddenly zeen said someone is pricking her thru the window side.. I immediately raised and saw who is it.. One stupid was there sleeping.. Within few minutes, again his hands came thru the window pane..On such situations i lose my temper, stood up and started shouting at him.. He was continuing his sleeping drama.. All other passengers were good spectators. Suddenly he woke up and was looking as if he was in some other planet.. Zeen my brave friend gave him a slap..Then i shouted at the conductor for his silentness.. That stupid was saying why you never informed me when he pricked at the first time itself.. Few good souls then started to speak in favour so the conductor grabbed that stupid and pushed him on a road side..

What is important is to stay cool at all times. When you have spare time, think of everyday situations where you can be in trouble. And how you can save yourself. Its not necessary that women should be physically strong to defened themselves, after all, being mentally alert is the greatest weapon one can ever have.

I believe these tips are useful ...Pass on the message to the little ones at your home and to all the women you care...

LONELINESS

The greatest punishment one can ever have..Sometimes loneliness makes many facts clear,helps to take the right decisions. But many times, loneliness have sharp teeth & nails which pricks bad..

Loneliness is a chance to analyze Newton s third law.. It makes us think whatz the cause and for which effect , loneliness is cursed..

It’s a platform for repentence.It's a stage to recollect all the painful days one had come across..

And at loneliness we think how better our life would have been , if we had not taken the decision which lead to the ultimate cause.. It brings in front of us all the faces who had been hurt by us directly or indirect.. It makes us listen to all the songs which reflect our painful memories..

The second type of loneliness is a feeling of being alone even amidst people. Kind of blank feeling,nothing to feel, nothing to tell, nobody to complain, nobody to hear sobberings, nobody to

console, no one to convince, something like in an island, as if the last soul to remain in this dark world..

The second type of loneliness is the most cruelest than other things. One who had experienced the bitter taste of loneliness will never pass it to another…

A LETTER TO HEAVEN

From
your little one

To
My father

Am not going to address you as dear father. If you were dear to me and mom u would not have left us alone in this tough world.. There were many fathers in this world who smoke, drinks, who never cares about their family.. But u were a genuine father.. who lived for your family.. you nutured your children well.. you had lots of xpectation and dreams on us..And on a fine day, you left us all alone, in this money minded world..

You know how tough we struggled to live in this world. But seriously dad, many times I had felt if you were there, I would not have been undergone this much pain… I would not have been 'xpected fatherly care and tender from whom I consider beloved.. I would not have been adamant so much.. you would have been taught me consistency, perseverance..

I had missed you badly several times, had longed for you..when i return home late night after my project, you were not there to pick me.. whenever i went to my friends house, on seein their father daughter relation, i had felt envied secretly.. i had felt lone many times without you.. i never had an elderly person to guide me.. I took foolish decisions by self.. When i came to know i was wrong, you were not there to console me and guide me the righteous way.. I suffered a lot dad in your absence...Am angry on u dad… you should not have left u’r little one in this tough world..

Let others SMILE with our EYES..

All my train journies are memorable. Definitely I will get new friends, will come to know about some different personalities. Something interesting will happen..The same thing happened while I was on my way to Chennai for my Engineering councelling

The character that remains on my heart is a 55 yr old aunt Mrs. Bharathi..taking her 40 days old grand daughter “Megna” to Nethralaya. She looked like a little angel The baby was sleeping with its mouth little open...So sorry I felt for that child.. Whom to blame.. she was a premature kid so that they had put her in some photo electric case which made her optic nerve to shrink

Through out the journey I was looking at that babe's charming face. Her face remembered me the bunch of baby pink rose bundles.. So cute she was sleeping.. Really it touched my heart...

Somewhere I had read , no one can do everything , but everyone can do something.. I wil not stop to do the little work I can..

While I was in net, I came to know about these information...
In India total people 110 crore..
Each day death 62,389..
Each day born 86,853..
In India total blind 68,2497..
If each death people donate their eyes, within 10 days, India achieves no blind man in the country

Lets try to do the little thing which we can.. Lets donate our eyes after death and illuminate other s life.. Let others SMILE wit our EYES..